T’Pell was born into a family of merchants and traders. By Vulcan standards, they were quite liberal. Most of her relations had spent considerable time off-world dealing with many different species. They could not have struck successful deals without some flexibility or some capacity to understand alien perspectives. A few, admitting considerable appreciation for other cultures, had even chosen to live away from Vulcan or intermarry. T’Pell’s great uncle was a Ferengi. Though raised to respect the teachings of Surak, she was also taught that there were many gray areas and many different interpretations of the rules, and that Vulcans could still learn valuable lessons from non-Vulcans.
Though she anticipated following in the family business, she became fascinated by scraps she heard about Vulcan military history. The thought that Vulcans were once a martial species made even her family slightly uncomfortable, but T’Pell argued that it was illogical to ignore such a potent force as violence. It was a fact of life in a physical universe. Rather than ignoring it, Vulcans—and, given their experience overcoming it, especially Vulcans—ought to take a lead in harnessing it for the greater good.
Soon, T’Pell fixed on the idea of joining Starfleet. Instead of questioning her decision, her family used their considerable contacts to help her. She met a wide variety of active and former officers who were only too happy to take the time to talk with a bright young Vulcan. She was well prepared by the time she took the entrance exam, passing it on the first try with excellent marks.
T’Pell also did well at the Academy, though she sometimes came into conflict with other Vulcan cadets, particularly those following the security track. Most tended to believe that violence among Vulcans was ancient history. They often spoke about their interest in security and military matters purely in the abstract, appealing to game theory or tactical analysis theory. However, T’Pell routinely pressed the point that Vulcan military tradition was much nearer than they thought—as recent as pre-Federation relations with the Andorians—and provided a substantial, if less quantifiable, inspiration for Vulcans to draw on.
While at the Academy, T’Pell met Sayvok. Though he was training to become a science officer, they found the shared a general outlook on the world and a similar attitude toward modern Vulcan culture. They also took great pleasure in each other’s company. Their decision to marry was met with approval by T’Pell’s family, which had long ago abandoned arranged marriages. Sayvok’s much more conservative family had more serious doubts, but eventually consented to the union.
When they graduated, Sayvok was assigned to the USS Khitomer. T’Pell had hoped to join him but instead became a junior officer on board the USS Repulse, a heavy escort and part of the frontline defense along the Klingon border. When Sayvok was transferred to the USS Dublin Bay, she also filed a transfer request. Though Sayvok quickly moved again to the USS Deborah Sampson, his commanding officer, Lt. Adalaxia Zeen, did receive a copy of her request and decided to grant it.
T’Pell is extremely outgoing and open-minded. She is also tenacious intellectually and physically. She enjoys debating with a worthy adversary as much as a match with a good sparring partner. Nevertheless, she believes that conflict is only a means to an end, and that the ultimate goal of violence must always be peace.